[You mean the best question. She understands privacy. She also understands when it becomes a Problem.

Somehow, she's been getting away with all his abrasiveness though, and he's just avoiding the question. Tokiya if you keep doing this to her, she'll keep thinking you're not an asshole.]

I won't push, but I just feel like what it is you think is inconsequential might be more important than you believe. Perhaps just sorting through that might also help you too. Even for your career purposes.